Relationship help??????????

It is more likely of a fantasy or something in the beginning. However, as time goes on, the love is still there for the person, but responsibilities real life kicks in and makes you more serious. Also you will notice little things that irritate you about the person. In addition, there might be things about what they do making you feel insecure, jealous, or more possessive. This can all sort of ruin that romantic element. Therefore, it really depends on the people if they can strive to come back to the romance again. :)